my family doesnt understand why I am so intent on transfering to a college that is closer to the guy I am with (and plan to marry). its because Im afraid to tell them that when I look back on the choices I made, that I would rather know I chose love above evrything else. there are so many decisions I have made that I second guess and worry about, except the one I made when I decided to leave my old school for us.

@Anonymous

I understand where you’re coming from completely. I gave up a full ride to go to a school that wasn’t offering me that much, so I could stay close to Matt. The school was a two hour plane ride away. Where I go now is only a half hour drive. I see him all the time. This is one decision I will never regret. I know my parents know I chose my college because of Matt, though they might not agree. There were other reasons I chose it as well, but regardless. If you’ve found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, you fight for it. I know Matt comes before everything else with me. I told my parents in the long run, they have no control over my love life, and to back off. If this boy is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, then this was the right chose. I’m glad you have no second thoughts about this, and I truly hope the best for the two of you. <3